Open-minded couples and singles in Oviedo

Gramsy is a place for open-minded couples and singles in Oviedo to find each other: couples looking for another couple, couples looking for a third, singles, and people in open or polyamorous relationships. Your profile says what you're after and where your limits are, and you talk it through in messages before anyone meets in person.

Who is looking for what

• Couples meeting couples. A few messages first, then a cider or a dinner with no expectation of anything more.
• Couples looking for a third. The couple writes in the profile what kind of threesome they have in mind, so whoever replies already knows.
• Singles. You sign up on your own and look for couples, or for other singles who see relationships the way you do.
• Open relationships and polyamory. Every relationship has its own agreements, and on Gramsy they come up at the start of the conversation.
• LGBTQ+ people looking for a partner, a threesome or a non-exclusive relationship.

Oviedo and central Asturias

Oviedo is the capital of the Principality of Asturias, with a little over 220,000 residents. It's a walkable city. From the Campo de San Francisco park you reach Calle Uría, and from there the old town with its cathedral and the El Fontán market. For a relaxed first date, Calle Gascona, known as the cider boulevard, packs a lot of sidrerías into one short street, and watching cider being poured from above the head gives you something to talk about if you're both a little nervous.

In a city this size discretion matters, and Gramsy has settings for that (see the FAQ below). Your circle also reaches beyond the city limits. Gijón is about 28 kilometres away and Avilés about 27, and both are on the local train network from Oviedo. In search you can switch the city to Gijón or Avilés and see those profiles as well.

How it usually starts

The usual order is profile, messages and then, if things line up, a first meeting somewhere neutral. Before you meet, it helps to have talked about what you'd like, what you wouldn't, and whether the first date is only a chance to get acquainted. If you need several conversations before deciding anything, put that in your profile.

New to this? Our article “Open Relationships and Swinging: 10 Beginner Mistakes on First Dates” covers the most common ones.

What Gramsy gives you

• One profile for a couple. A shared description plus a section for each partner with age, appearance and preferences.
• You see who's writing. Before sending a message, you choose whether it comes from one partner or from both, and the other side sees that.
• Verification checked by a person. A moderator compares your verification photos with your profile photos. Once verified, you can let only verified profiles message you first.
• Intimate preferences stay hidden. They're private by default. Until there's a mutual exchange, each side only sees where you broadly overlap.
• Private album. Your personal photos are visible only to people you've given access to, and you can take that access back whenever you like.
• Members only. Profiles can't be seen without signing up.