Dating in Europe for couples and unconventional relationship formats
Gramsy is a dating platform for people in unconventional relationship formats: couples looking for a third, swingers, polyamorous families, the BDSM scene, LGBTQ+. These are overlapping communities that mainstream dating apps don't fit.
Sign up from any country in Europe — your profile is visible across the region, and many couples and singles regularly travel between countries for meet-ups. For a growing list of countries we've also published detailed overviews of the local scene.
Southern Europe
Italy, Spain and Portugal — the Mediterranean and Atlantic side of the continent: warm seasons, coastal nightlife, and an open scene that's easy to step into, often in English.
Western Europe
France, Germany, the Netherlands, the UK, Belgium, Switzerland and Ireland — the continental heart of the region, home to some of Europe's largest and most established urban scenes, close together and easy to travel across.
Baltics
Latvia, Estonia and Lithuania — a compact, digital corner of the EU with three capitals a short hop apart, an under-the-radar scene that's real and easy to reach across borders.
Central Europe
The Czech Republic, Austria and Slovakia — a tightly connected core where Vienna, Prague, Brno and Bratislava sit close together, with deep fetish and swing scenes in Vienna and Prague and a growing capital scene in Bratislava.
The Nordics
Sweden, Denmark, Norway and Finland — real prosperity and easy liberalism kept low-key, with Copenhagen tied to Malmö over the Øresund bridge, a quiet, spread-out scene across Norway, and a reserved, sauna-warm one in Finland.