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One profile, two people
Each partner has a separate section for age, looks and tastes, so the shared description need not cover everything. Join on your own and you get a single profile.
Swinger dating in Alicante
For residents and newcomers who would rather sort out expectations in writing before a first drink
Gramsy is where couples in Alicante who swing, and single people who would like to meet them, find each other online. Every profile states what its owner is after and has a place for what is off the table, so you only write to people who might be a match. The site runs in English, which helps if your Spanish is still a work in progress.
Who you will find here
Two couples
You chat, you get on, and the four of you meet. Whether anything more happens is up to you.
A couple and a man
The couple's profile says they would like to meet a man. Single men can narrow the search down to couples.
A couple and a woman
A woman joining a couple is something both sides get to take slowly. Say in your profile what you have in mind.
Not exclusive
Open relationships, polyamory, LGBT+ couples, and singles who do not want an exclusive relationship. The description is the place to explain your agreements.
AI-generated images · Fictional people, not Gramsy members
Alicante is a mid-sized city. You can cross the centre on foot, and Postiguet beach is a short walk from the Explanada. In a place this size you bump into people you know, which is one reason to talk online first. Gramsy is also open to LGBT+ members and to singles looking for another single.
From first message to first meeting
The first messages and a short date are for finding out whether you get on. A decision about swapping can wait.
Three stages
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Read, then write
See what each profile is looking for and message only those after something similar. Awkward questions are easier in writing. - Step 2Step 2
An afternoon drink
People in Alicante go out at midday and in the afternoon; locals call it tardeo. You could suggest a vermouth in daylight and agree to keep the first date short. - Step 3Step 3
Whatever comes next
A second meeting, a dinner, a night together. Or nothing, and no hard feelings.
Before a first date, it is worth reading what tends to go wrong for beginners in open relationships and swinging.
What you know before a first date
Six things you will not need to ask about in chat.
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You can tell who is writing
When you write from a couple's profile you pick the sender: her, him or both. The message arrives under that name.
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Photos checked by a person
Verification means sending a photo that shows a handwritten code, which a moderator checks against your photos by eye. After that, you can restrict new chats to profiles that are verified too.
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Intimate details open both ways
At first, others see only where you overlap in broad terms. The details open when one side asks and the other agrees, and then both sides see them.
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Photos for people you choose
A private album is opened request by request: someone asks, you accept, and that profile can see it. You can take the permission back later.
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Out of search whenever you like
One switch removes you from search results, and a second one turns the profile off entirely. People without an account cannot see profiles.
AI-generated images · Fictional people, not Gramsy members
Meeting up around Alicante
The centre makes a first date easy. The Explanada, the marina and the old town, known locally as El Barrio, are a few minutes' walk apart. If you live out by San Juan beach or in El Campello, the TRAM runs there from Luceros station, and to San Vicente del Raspeig as well. Elche is about half an hour away on the Cercanías commuter train. When you live at opposite ends of the area, meeting halfway is the practical choice, and someone's own neighbourhood can wait for the second date.
Search lists profiles from the city you pick first, then those from nearby cities. If you live in El Campello or Elche, put your real city in your profile. Someone searching in Alicante will see you after the Alicante profiles.
Some people skip the chat stage and go straight to a club. Below are the swinger clubs in and around Alicante; we checked each one against its official site.
Swinger & lifestyle clubs in and around Alicante
- Atrium AlicanteAv. de la Condomina 15, 03016 AlicanteSwinger clubMixedParkingChecked November 2026Official site
- El Jardín del EdénCalle Garachico 35, 03112 AlicanteSwinger clubMixedBarChecked November 2026Official site
- ÁditiSant Joan d'Alacant · 7 km from the city centreSwinger clubMixedBarSaunaChecked November 2026Official site
Information was last checked recently; venues can change or close — confirm on the official site.
Gramsy is not affiliated with these venues.