Dating in North America for open-minded singles and couples
North America holds some of the world's largest and most organised open scenes — spread across enormous distances, split between dozens of major cities, each with its own character and its own quiet rules. Gramsy exists for the people those scenes are made of: couples looking for a third, swingers, polyamorous families, the BDSM community, LGBTQ+ people — everyone whose relationships don't fit a two-checkbox form — and open-minded singles looking for each other.
Sign up from anywhere on the continent — your profile is visible across Gramsy wherever you are. Our detailed local guides for North America begin with Canada, home to one of the clearest legal climates for the open community anywhere.
Canada
Marriage equality since 2005 — first in the Americas — and a Supreme Court precedent that cleared a members-only club of indecency two decades ago. Guides for Toronto, Montreal, Vancouver and Ottawa: the country's biggest scene, its francophone heart, the Pacific coast and the capital.