Dating in Spain for couples and conscious relationships

Spain is one of the most open countries in Europe. Swinger clubs in Madrid and Barcelona have been running for decades, poly communities along the Mediterranean coast are an established reality, and the LGBTQ+ neighborhoods of major cities are well-known points of reference across Europe. For people who don't fit the traditional monogamous model, Spain is a particularly welcoming place to live openly, without hiding.

The gap Gramsy fills

The problem isn't the culture — it's that platforms haven't caught up with it. Mainstream dating apps aren't designed for profiles like «couple looking for a third» or «polyamorous family», and there are few places where couple accounts and the full diversity of formats live together in one product.

Gramsy starts from a different premise. The profile shows directly what each person is looking for, who they're open to meeting, and where their boundaries are. Our goal is for the profile to be as informative as possible — so the conversations that do happen run with less friction, and the ones that wouldn't go anywhere can be skipped before they start.

A young platform, openly so

We're a new project, and we say so plainly. We build Gramsy for people for whom conventional dating sites simply don't fit. Couples looking for a third, swingers, polyamorous families, BDSM, LGBTQ+ — these are overlapping communities, not separate audiences as the market tends to treat them.

Privacy and honesty

For couples, we have a couple account: both partners use it together, see the same conversations, and make decisions jointly. If it later becomes more practical to have two separate logins, that can be set up — each gets their own credentials, while the profile and conversations stay shared.

Photos go through moderation before they're published. Public pages show only what you've authorized, blurred by default. The profile can be hidden from search results while keeping access via direct link — useful if you live in a smaller city and want to avoid casual encounters.

Nicknames instead of real names; phone and email are hidden. Full identity is revealed only to the people you yourself decide to meet.

Cities of Spain

We're starting with four cities — Madrid, Barcelona, Valencia, and Seville. If your city isn't on the list yet, sign up anyway: profiles are visible across Spain, and many couples from Barcelona and Madrid look for matches specifically in smaller nearby towns.

Neighbouring countries

• Dating in France — Parisian libertine scene, active poly and BDSM communities, the French Riviera
• Dating in Germany — Berlin scene, Munich private events, open polyamorous culture
• Dating in Italy — Roman libertine tradition, Milan's modern scene, Bologna's progressive queer culture, local circles in Naples and Florence